Gay, bi, trans and queerGay dating: genuine men, close to you
On Gay Dating, you see the singles around you at a glance, and you like a profile with a single tap. A great friendship or a lasting relationship: everyone shows what they're looking for, with respect and without judgement.
Free · 18+ · Same account on the website and in the app
- Singles around you, in a grid
- Profiles verified by selfie
- Your profile invisible outside the app
One look, one heart, one match
Just like in the app, profiles near you are shown as a grid of photos. No need to swipe through cards one by one: you see several men at once, and you choose.
- SpotFirst name, age, distance and verified badge on every photo: the essentials, at a glance.
- LikeTap the small heart on the photo, without even opening the profile.
- Get to know each otherIf the interest is mutual, it's a match: the conversation opens for free.
Your identity, your wishes
Gay Dating is for all men who love men, whatever their story. Choose how you identify, who you want to meet, and what you're really looking for.
I am
- Male
- Transgender Man
- Transmasculine
- Non-Binary (Masculine)
- Queer
- Other
You can look for one or more of these profiles.
I'm looking for
- ♥️ Serious Relationship
- 🌱 Growing Relationship
- 💬 Chat & Connect
- 🌍 Meet New People
- 🤎 Go With the Flow
Passions you share
Choose your interests from those in the app: they appear on your profile, and give you a topic for the first message straight away.
Going out
- 🕺 Clubbing / Gay Bars
- 🥂 Endless Brunch / Sunday Funday
- 🍹 Cocktail Lounges / Mixology
- 🎤 Karaoke Nights
- 🌆 Rooftop Parties
Pop culture
- 👑 RuPaul’s Drag Race / Drag Shows
- 💅 Pop Divas (Gaga, Beyoncé, Madonna)
- 🎵 Eurovision Song Contest
- 🍿 Queer Cinema & LGBTQ+ Series
- 🎭 Musical Theatre / Broadway
Community
- 🏳️🌈 Pride Parades & Festivals
- 📢 LGBTQ+ Rights & Activism
- 🏛️ Queer History & Culture
- ❤️ Volunteering for LGBTQ+ Charities
- 🏃♂️ LGBTQ+ Sports Leagues
Lifestyle
- 🏋️♂️ Gym Culture / Weightlifting
- 🎨 Contemporary Art / Gallery Openings
- 🍳 Foodie / Cooking for Friends
- 🐶 Dog Dad / Pet Lover
- ☕ Iced Coffee Addict / Specialty Cafés
Your privacy, your choice
Not everyone lives their love life in the open, and that's your right. On Gay Dating, you decide what you show, and to whom.
- Invisible outside the appYour profile doesn't appear on the site's public pages or in search engines: only signed-in members can see it.
- Contact details never shownYour email address and phone number are never shown to other members.
- Incognito modeWith Premium, browse profiles without being seen.
- Block and hideA profile makes you uncomfortable? Block it or hide it in two taps: it won't show up again.
Meeting people, yes. Falling into a trap, no.
Malicious people sometimes use dating apps to trap, rob or blackmail gay men. A few simple habits are enough to keep the pleasure of meeting someone, without the risk.
- A video call firstIt confirms the person is the one in the photos. Be wary of anyone who always refuses.
- A public place, alwaysFor a first date: a busy bar or café, never an unknown address or an isolated spot. Tell a friend.
- No photo where you can be recognisedAn intimate photo showing your face can be used to blackmail you. If it happens: don't pay, keep the evidence, report it.
- Never send moneyNo money, no gift card, no code received by text to someone you met online, whatever their story.
From the first message to the first drink
When you click in writing, don't wait weeks to meet. Pick a place where you both feel comfortable, and talk simply about what matters to each of you, privacy included.
In 7 languages, like the app
From Paris to Madrid, from São Paulo to Berlin, from Rome to Bangkok: the Gay Dating site and app speak your language, and each profile shows the languages the person speaks.
- Français
- English
- Español
- Português
- Deutsch
- Italiano
- ไทย
The app's features
The app's features, also available on the website with the same account.
Like, match, chat
If you both like each other, the conversation opens for free, with no message limit.
Clear intentions
Serious relationship, getting to know each other, meeting new people: everyone's goal shows on their profile.
The Connections tab
Your matches and the men who liked your profile in one place, with a dot as soon as there's something new.
The verified profile
A selfie copying a gesture is all it takes: the blue badge reassures other members, and you can choose to see only verified profiles.
Three steps to get started
- 1
Create your profile
Your photos, your interests and what you're looking for: a few minutes, on the site or in the app.
- 2
Get it verified
The blue badge shows you're really the man in your photos. Members pay close attention to it.
- 3
Get to know each other
As soon as the interest is mutual, the conversation opens. Suggest a drink when you're both ready.
One account, on the website and in the app
Your matches and conversations follow you: on your computer, then on your phone with the Gay Dating app.
Download the app so you never miss a message:
Frequently asked questions
Who is Gay Dating for?
For men who love men: gay, bi, trans, non-binary or queer, aged 18 and over. Choose how you identify from the app's genders, and say what you're looking for: serious relationship, getting to know each other, friendship, meeting new people.
Can I stay discreet?
Yes. Your profile is only visible to signed-in members, never to search engines, and your contact details are never shown. Choose your photos freely, use Premium's incognito mode to browse profiles without being seen, and block or hide a profile at any time.
What do you do about fake profiles and set-ups?
Photos are checked automatically (photos found elsewhere on the internet are rejected), profiles can be verified with a selfie and the moderation team reviews every report. Make a video call before meeting, meet in a public place, and never send money or an intimate photo where you can be recognised.
Is Gay Dating free?
Yes for the essentials: sign-up, profile, likes and unlimited chat with each of your matches. Diamonds and the Premium subscription are optional.
Can I look for several kinds of profiles at once?
Yes. In your match preferences, select one or more genders (man, trans man, transmasculine, non-binary masculine, queer, other), then set the age range and search distance.
Which languages is the website available in?
In French, English, Spanish, Portuguese, German, Italian and Thai, like the app. Switch language at any time from the language menu.